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When somebody gets a little uncomfortable, they'll start moving around a little bit.
Also, listen for tone of voice.
You might hear tone of voice drop and soften a little bit when they're starting to talk about pain. So these are key indicators to help us.
So I get asked a lot, how do we know if we've got enough pain, and if it makes sense keep moving on in the process, and if that prospect is committed to actually taking action, whether it be with us or somebody else?
So as we're looking at, how we do we know if we have enough pain, the first thing we have to know is what's the problem actually? Do we have context around what it is that they're trying to solve? And then next, we have to know why is that a problem? It's not just enough to know you've got a problem, but why is it truly a problem for them. What's happening when that problem occurs?
From there, it's now, how is it impacting them? If something doesn't have impact--think about it in our own personal lives, if it doesn't have impact for us, a problem, we just go, OK, I'm going to put it on the to do list. I've got to get to it.
It just keeps going on week after week. And we never get to it.
It works the same way with the people you're talking to across the table in those prospects. If it doesn't have impact, and the impact is not big enough, no action will be taken, whether it's with you or somebody else. They'll just say, that's something nice to think about. I'll get back to you. Or yeah, we should work on that. And just nothing happens.
Then we've got to understand when it comes to impact a couple pieces.
Business wise, how is it affecting their business? Is it dollars they're losing? Is it hours of work that are being lost? Is there some other impact--they're losing customers?
And then for that person we're sitting across from, we've got to understand, well, what's the impact from them? When the business is losing money, are they measured on it? Is it taking money out of their own paycheck? Is it they're having their bosses yelling at them? Or they've got customers yelling at them? And they're fearing, OK, gosh, what's going to happen next?
And then we've got to get down to the emotion. So how are they really feeling about it when this is all happening? What's the real emotional response they're having to? Because that's what people really want help solving is when problem A happens, and it has this effect, this is what I really feel. And I want to get away from having that feeling every day.
And then finally, is this something they're committed to fixing? Do they really want to take action? And once again, that's not whether it's with you or someone else, it's just, are they committed to taking action? If we've got all those pieces, now we've got enough pain. And we can keep moving forward with that prospect.