Video Transcript
You start out in sales where there's that binary outcome: “yes” or “no.”
I have discovered three types of “yeses” in selling. The first yes is a counterfeit yes. I mean, they're saying yes just because we have happy ears. And they're picking up that we have happy ears. And the best way to keep the process going, the best way to bring things to no without saying no, is the counterfeit yes.
Your sixth sense is telling you it's a counterfeit “yes.” And you've got to challenge that “yes.”
That might sound something like, you know, when you say yes, especially as it relates to dot, dot, dot, what do you mean? And get them to elaborate.
Now, the next yes is a confirming yes. The confirming yes is nothing more than their agreement with what you're saying. But again, that requires some challenge, but not as challenging as the counterfeit yes.
A confirming yes might be that they agree in terms and want to continue the process because they like where it's going. But still, you have to ask. OK, so you're affirming or agreeing with me in this area. So why?
The next yes is the committed yes. That means they're committed to you. But still, you've got to challenge every one of these yeses. So when they say yes, OK, you're saying yes. Does that mean that we're going to the next step? You're doing business with me? What does that mean?
And you know, sometimes you can play dumb like a fox.
For example, you know, you're telling me “yes.” What does that mean from your perspective? Now I'm not talking about confronting them, but challenging them to nurture them. When you use your gut (and your gut's more right than not), you're going to figure out what “yes” you're dealing with, then you challenge it in the most appropriate way because if you do, you're going to shorten that selling cycle and get some outcomes you'd like.